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Where There is Love There is Sight
I will always remember the first time someone prayed over me using he and they pronouns interchangeably. You may have noticed my Zoom account says my pronouns are he/they, and when I introduce myself, I often say, “I’m Tyler. I use he and they pronouns.” This minister heard me, and decided to use both pronouns as he prayed. In those few moments, I felt seen and heard in a way I can’t describe in words. The thought still brings tears to my eyes.
Train of Tears
On May 13th, I thought about that experience as I sat in the sanctuary at Riverside UCC in Hood River, Oregon. It was the 80th anniversary of the internment of our neighbors of Japanese ancestry. In researching the history of the terrible harm perpetrated by our government in 1942, the people of Riverside UCC have found no record of their church speaking out against the internment.
Leaning into Love
We're all struggling with how to worship after Omicron. What's the right balance of precaution that will mean caring for one another and caring for our community? How scared should we be? How bold should we be? We thought we had a plan, and the Omicron sneaker-wave knocked us onto the rocks. Can we ever trust a plan again?
Women’s History Month - March 2022
It's Women’s History Month, and I hope it goes without saying that women are capable theologians, religious thinkers, and ethical decision-makers. That’s why I’m so troubled by laws, like the one proposed in Idaho, that limit women’s ability to make the complicated ethical decision of whether or not to have an abortion.
Black History Month - February 2022
There’s a story my parents tell about when I was four years old. I’ve come to realize it’s a particularly Oregon story. I’d grown up in Zambia, aware of race from a very young age. We had recently arrived in Portland where we were intending to live while my dad went to Western Evangelical Seminary. As we were driving to church one Sunday, I was looking out the window and shouted, “Mommy, where are all the Black people?”
In the Midst of the Storm
"I'm worried about our church council. They're not making good decisions, and the church is declining," the voice on the other end of the phone spoke rapidly, as if they needed to get the words out before I cut them off or contradicted them. The day before, I'd had a similar conversation. That one began, "I'm worried about our pastor..."
Moving into a New Phase
If you spend any time with pastors or church leaders of any kind, it's not long before the subject will turn to worship and contagion precautions. "How is your church doing worship right now? Are you requiring vaccines? Are you checking? What about masks? Are you singing? Is anyone singing?"
Bring Your Requests… and Give Thanks
“Don’t be anxious about anything; rather, bring up all of your requests to God in your prayers and petitions, along with giving thanks.” (CEB)
It seems like everywhere I go these days I run into churches where anxiety is high and conflict is boiling. If your church is experiencing anxiety and conflict, there is nothing wrong with you. You are simply living in difficult times, and responding in a way that is natural.
Wildfire Update
Pastoral Letter - October 10, 2021
Over the past several weeks we have been working with local church pastors, and community partners to assess the damage and immediate financial needs. To our knowledge, four of our conference congregations were directly impacted by the wildfires
Groundhog Day & Swiss Cheese
The other day, I was getting ready to text a friend, “I feel like I’m living in Groundhog Day.” I picked up my phone, and found a new text from that friend describing their energy as “restless, depressed groundhog (a la Groundhog Day).”
Here we are again. Or here we are still.
Reckoning
Today, I’m heading to Coos Bay with three members of our CPC Board cohort of the Reckoning with Our Racist History project of the Common Table. We’ve spent the last nine months learning about Oregon’s history, digging into our conference’s land stories, and uncovering our own stories.
Some Resources for Next Steps
One of our churches wrote me this week to say they had started a phasing-forward taskforce, and to ask if there were any new regulations that I thought they should be aware of. Here’s what I wrote in reply…
Mr. Nakata & Dr. Seuss
The week before last, I and more than two hundred faith leaders from around the state of Oregon sat and listened to the stories of George Yoshio Nakata. His first-hand account stunned and silenced the attendees…
Sabbaticals & Sabbath
I grew up in a family that took Sunday sabbath very seriously. Breakfast on Sunday was coffee-cake, because Mom could make it ahead, and lunch was pot-roast for the same reason. Sunday afternoon was for napping or reading. We never mowed the lawn, or did chores on Sunday.
Anniversaries Can Be Hard
As we approach the one-year anniversary of those first pandemic lockdowns, you may find yourself feeling emotionally unsettled. In grief counseling, we often find that anniversaries can creep up on people. Sometimes we feel the anniversary in our body even before our mind remembers…
Tell a Different Christian Story
The people who surrounded and invaded the US Capitol on January 6th did so under the banner of Christ. That statement may seem too blunt, but consider the facts:
We cannot escape the truth that to most observers this was an overtly Christian event. So, what do we do with that truth?
The Truth. In Love. Relentlessly.
For too long, too many of us have looked away as our angry neighbors and leaders spread lies and vitriol. We have courted danger, treating politics like a spectator sport, not realizing that polemics — especially polemics that prop up white supremacy and bigotry — is a deadly game.
The Mind of Christ
“Have the mind of Christ who though he was one with God chose to become a human, enslaving himself for the good of others.”
I’ve been thinking about this passage a lot lately, as I see our society trying to enroll us once again in the slaveholder mindset…
Trust
I trust you. That may seem strange to say, since I have so little contact with many of you. However, trust is the bedrock of my work as Conference Minister…
Cultivate Peace
Note: This post is about the violence, threats of violence, and self-harm that are prevalent in our society right now.
People are on edge, anxious about the future, tired of being cooped up, worried about finances and health, angry about the political situation — and all of that is leading to increases in domestic violence, public violence, and self-harm.
Downtown Portland & WyEast/Mt. Hood - Image by Tyler Connoley